做一个爱美的女人

我从前是个极邋遢的姑娘,不美,不爱美。作为女人,包里没有镜子,衣柜里没有配饰。永远都是黑灰白,永远都是牛仔裤球鞋。关键是我还不以为耻,反以为荣。

年过三十了,才觉得美其实很重要。

美,是给自己看的。当然,顺便也可以秀给别人看看。

有一阵子,一直颓着,看小说追电视剧,颓得自己灰头土脸。直到某天醒来,干干净净地洗漱,认认真真地化妆,然后穿上新购的蓝色大衣,搭上淡橙色的丝巾,蹬上高高的靴子。看着镜子里干净爽利的自己,突然斗志昂扬,觉得自己又活了过来。

是的,看自己美美的样子,会觉得自己还真正活着,而且值得好好对待。

爱美,说到底是一种生活态度,是爱自己的起始。中国的女人们,大多忙着老公,忙着孩子,不要说阅读旅游,就算是衣襟也都沾满了孩子的鼻涕。我们就是这样一步步把自己低落到尘埃里,然后等到老公有了外遇孩子不尊重自己时,还自觉委屈得不行。我不是说这样活该,可也真觉得是我们自己的错占了大半。亲爱的女人们,若你自己都不爱自己,若你自己都不珍视自己,又如何要求别人去爱你,珍惜你呢。我们,需得学着充实自己爱自己,学着活出自己的价值,而不是一日日在俗世里失了自己。

爱美,不仅仅是爱好那身皮囊,还要爱好那颗心,让自己从内而外地美,让自己爽心悦目,让身边的人轻松愉悦。只有如此,才能信心满满,才能收放自如,才能爱好自己和别人。

所以,爱美就是某种意义的爱自己,也是一种更好意义的爱别人。

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